What Is The Wake-Up Call?

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what is wake up call?

The wake-up call is activated by an incident or occurrence. It causes us to throw back on where we are and what our actions are, and sometimes if we need to change something.

Wake-up calls make us see the situation in different aspects.

Some general wake-up calls are given below:

  • Financial dropping
  • Failure in relationship
  • Deep sorrow at the loss of a loved one
  • De-motivation
  • Not able to achieve the target
  • Rejected from job
  • Feeling low

We don’t have experience on how to handle hurting wake-up calls. There are some signals to pay attention to that can activate us to change our life.

We are always receiving inner institutions and motivation to move on the correct path. If we try to recognize our capacity how can we guide ourselves in the right way? Then can our problems be solved and can we inspire ourselves?

A few important wake-ups calls will change your life and help you attain your goal.

#1 – Self-respect and self-commitment:

Self Respect and Commitment

You should not take yourself for granted. Self-respect is the first step to loving yourself and treating yourself with care and respecting yourself means you don’t compare yourself with other people. This is important for today’s demands. Making mistakes and undergoing rejection and experiencing failure throughout your life, when all these situations come into our lives and at that time how we react and deal with that situation people dealing methods are different. However, some people get anxious to handle the situation at that time. So here, self-commitment will help you to handle an undesirable situation. Sometimes our handling capacity is good. We should respect ourselves and our decision. We should learn from our past experiences.

#2 – Money is not required to prove yourself:

Studies say that giving more priority to money has negative consequences. We always know our self-wealth does not show our intelligence, life satisfaction, and skills. If that is what we have been doing it’s time to break and assess ourselves to what we want to do.

Believe in yourself: Trusting yourself is a big and effective aspect of your life. You will have a positive attitude towards your work and your skills, you will be clear about your value and try to engage in new activities that are more fulfilling.

Trust your work and develop an optimistic view of the self.

#3 – Accepting yourself unconditionally:

Sometimes we can not accept ourselves as we are. We should love ourselves unconditionally and try practising self-love and take full responsibility for our life. Identifying your worth will help you tap into your everyday power and automatically transform your life for the betterment. So you appreciate yourself and your work.

Taking help or assistance from expert psychologists and therapists to avail your wake-up call is more than fine and you can get access to multiple expert psychologists from the comfort of your screens! Miind My Miind is an eco-system of mental well-being services that are curated with the view to strengthen mental health via virtual and hassle-free access to a community that believes in thriving practices and upliftment of mental health.

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      1 (s) I found it hard to wind down.

       

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      2 (a) I was aware of dryness of my mouth.

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      3 (d) I couldn’t seem to experience any positive feeling at all.

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      4 (a) I experienced breathing difficulty (e.g. excessively rapid breathing,
      breathlessness in the absence of physical exertion).

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      5 (d) I found it difficult to work up the initiative to do things.

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      6 (s) I tended to over-react to situations.

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      7 (a) I experienced trembling (e.g. in the hands).

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      8 (s) I felt that I was using a lot of nervous energy.

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      9 (a) I was worried about situations in which I might panic and make a fool
      of myself.

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      10 (d) I felt that I had nothing to look forward to.

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      11 (s) I found myself getting agitated.

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      12 (s) I found it difficult to relax.

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      13 (d) I felt down-hearted and blue.

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      14 (s) I was intolerant of anything that kept me from getting on with what I
      was doing.

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      15 (a) I felt I was close to panic.

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      16 (d) I was unable to become enthusiastic about anything.

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      17 (d) I felt I wasn’t worth much as a person.

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      18 (s) I felt that I was rather touchy.

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      19 (a) I was aware of the action of my heart in the absence of physical
      exertion (e.g. sense of heart rate increase, heart missing a beat).

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      20 (a) I felt scared without any good reason.

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      21 (d) I felt that life was meaningless.

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      A big question we all feel - am I in control of my life?

      This test helps you ascertain the degree of control that you believe  you have over your life and the events that occur. This belief plays a huge role in the satisfaction levels that we feel.

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      Is there some bad habit, such as smoking, that you would like to break but can’t?

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      Do you take steps, such as exercise and diet to control your weight and fitness?

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      Do you believe that your personality was firmly laid down in childhood so there is little you can do to change it?

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      Do you make your own decisions, regardless of what other people say?

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      Do you find it a waste of time to plan ahead because something always causes you to change direction?

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      If something goes wrong, do usually reckon it’s your own fault rather than just bad luck?

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      Are most of the things you do designed to please other people?

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      Do you often feel you are the victim of outside forces you cannot control?

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      Do you usually manage to resist being persuaded by other people’s arguments?

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      Are you sceptical about the extent to which your horoscope can tell you what you should do and what’s going to happen to you?.

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          How do You Cope with Anger?

          (The Behavioural Anger Response Questionnaire, BARQ)

          What do you most likely to do when you experience anger? This 34-item measure assesses your anger responses for children and adolescents – and may tell you which response you tend to favour when experiencing this strong, unpleasant emotion. A list of statements are provided below. State whether each of the statements are not true, sometimes true, or often true. This measure was developed specifically for children and young adolescents.

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          I say something nasty to the person who made me angry.

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          I use strong gestures (for example, make a fist, wave my arms, or give a hand sign).

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          I swear or curse, at the person who made me angry.

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          I hit or push the person who made me angry.

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          I express my anger by slamming a door, or hitting something.

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          I shout.

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          I wait until I am calm again and then talk to the person who made me angry. 

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          I carefully think it over and then tell the person who made me angry how I feel.

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          In a calm voice, I tell the person who made me angry how I honestly feel.

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          I try to understand what happened, so I can explain things to the person who made me angry.

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          I stay calm, and I try to talk about the problem and the person who made me angry. 

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          I leave the situation in order to calm down, and then try to solve the problem.

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          I do not show my anger but I talk about what happened with someone afterwards.

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          I leave the situation and look for someone who will agree with me.

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          I leave the situation, find someone to listen to my story, and ask for advice. 

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          I think about the problem first and then talk about it with someone.

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          I leave the situation and call a friend or family member to tell him/her how I feel. 

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          Even without planning it, I usually end up talking about my feelings with someone.

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          I get rid of my anger by playing music, writing, or painting. 

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          I just keep busy, until I stop feeling angry.

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          I work off my anger by doing some sport. 

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          I stay on my own to get rid of my anger.

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          I simply get very busy with other things to get rid of my anger.

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          I work off my anger by doing something else, like playing on the computer.

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          I tell myself that what happened is not important.

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          I try to forget what happened.

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          I put what happened out of my mind.

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          I do not want to have to cause trouble, so I keep my feelings to myself.

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          I just wait to feel better.

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          I try to keep busy so I can forget about what happened.

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          I keep thinking about what I wish I had done, but didn’t do.

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          I find it hard to stop thinking about what happened.

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          I am upset for a long time after this kind of situation.

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          In my mind, I go over the situation that made me angry again and again.

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          Are You Kind to Yourself?

          (The Self-Compassion Scale – Short Form, SCS-SF)

          Are you kind to yourself, and accepting of your personality? Self-compassion relates to your ability to ‘hold one’s suffering with a sense of warmth, connection and concern (Neff, 2003). This ability consists of self-kindness, self-judgement, the view that others suffer too (common humanity), feelings of isolation from others when one fails, as well as mindfulness towards one’s difficult situation and the extent to which one over-identifies with failure. This 12-item measure assesses your self-compassion ability. Simply answer each statement from ‘almost never’ to ‘almost always’ to indicate the extent to which you engage in these behaviours during difficult times of challenge and setbacks.

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          I’m intolerant and impatient towards those aspects of my personality I don’t like.

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          I’m disapproving and judgmental about my own flaws and inadequacies.

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          When I feel inadequate in some way, I try to remind myself that feelings of inadequacy are shared by most people.

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          When I’m feeling down I tend to obsess and fixate on everything that’s wrong.

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          When I fail at something that’s important to me, I tend to feel alone in my failure.

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          When something upsets me I try to keep my emotions in balance.

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          When I’m going through a very hard time, I give myself the caring and tenderness I need.

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          I try to see my failings as part of the human condition.

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          When I’m feeling down, I tend to feel like most other people are probably happier than I am.

          10 / 12

          When something painful happens I try to take a balanced view of the situation.

          11 / 12

          I try to be understanding and patient towards those aspects of my personality I don’t like.

          12 / 12

          When I fail at something important to me I become consumed by feelings of inadequacy.

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          How Mindfully Aware and Attentive are You?

          (Mindful Attempt Awareness Scale; MAAS)

          Being mindful means being consciously, deliberately attentive towards your present circumstances and environment, and being curious and non- judgmental towards the thoughts and emotions that arise as a result of one’s situation. This 15-item measure of mindfulness, called the Mindful Attempt Awareness Scale (MAAS) is designed to assess how mindful you generally are.

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          1 / 15

          I could be experiencing some emotion and not be conscious of it until sometime later.

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          I break or spill things because of carelessness, not paying attention, or thinking of something else.

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          I find it difficult to stay focused on what’s happening in the present.

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          I tend to walk quickly to get where I’m going without paying attention to what I experience along the way.

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          I tend not to notice feelings of physical tension or discomfort until they really grab my attention.

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          I forget a person’s name almost as soon as I’ve been told it for the first time.

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          It seems I am “running on automatic” without much awareness of what I’m doing.

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          I rush through activities without being really attentive to them.

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          I get so focused on the goal I want to achieve that I lose touch of what I’m doing.

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          I do jobs or tasks automatically, without being aware of what I’m doing.

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          I find myself listening to someone with one ear, doing something else at the same time.

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          I drive places on “automatic pilot” and then wonder why I went there.

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          I find myself preoccupied with the future or the past.

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          I find myself doing things without paying attention.

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          I snack without being aware that I’m eating.

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          The brief resilience scale

          (Brief Resilience Scale, BRS)

          The Brief Resilience Scale was created to assess the perceived ability to bounce back or recover from stress. The scale was developed to assess a unitary construct of resilience, including both positively and negatively worded items.

          The possible score range on the BRS is from 1 (low resilience) to 5 (high resilience).

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          I tend to bounce back quickly after hard times.

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          I have a hard time making it through stressful events. 

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          It does not take me long to recover from a stressful event. 

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          It is hard for me to snap back when something bad happens.

          5 / 6

          I usually come through difficult times with little trouble. 

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           I tend to take a long time to get over setbacks in my life.

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          The Warwick-Edinburgh Mental Well-being Scale

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          The WEMWBS was developed and tested by a group of researchers at the Universities of Edinburgh and Warwick.
          The WEMWBS is used to measure subjective well-being in adults ≥16 years.

          As defined by the developers, mental well-being relates to a person’s psychological functioning, life-satisfaction and ability to develop and maintain mutually benefiting relationships. Psychological wellbeing includes the ability to maintain a sense of autonomy, self acceptance, personal growth, purpose in life and self esteem. Staying mentally healthy is more than treating or preventing mental illness.

          Below are some statements about feelings and thoughts. Please tick the box that best describes your experience of each over the last 2 weeks

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          I’ve been feeling optimistic about the future

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          I’ve been feeling useful

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          I’ve been feeling relaxed

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          I’ve been feeling interested in other people

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          I’ve had energy to spare

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          I’ve been dealing with problems well

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          I’ve been thinking clearly

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          I’ve been feeling good about myself

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          I’ve been feeling close to other people

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          I’ve been feeling confident

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          I’ve been able to make up my own mind about things

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          I’ve been feeling loved

          13 / 14

          I’ve been interested in new things

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          I’ve been feeling cheerful

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          The Warwick-Edinburgh Mental Well-being Scale (WEMWBS)

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